There are so many overused cliches in the world, and while each of them have their own grain of truth, they can tend to get distorted through the wrong eyes. Take the cliche that “kindness makes a person more attractive.” Sure, that’s all nice to hear, but do people actually believe it’s true? Here’s why people should believe it, as much as the pessimists tell them not to.
The Heart Wants To Be Loved
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but our eyes are very much influenced by our hearts. Ultimately, we all desire love, and to be loved. It’s one of the core fundamental aspects of our world, and it comes in all shapes and sizes. If our heart receives the love it needs, our eyes follow suit. One of the best ways to show your love is through kindness.
Attraction Manifests Itself
Through our kindness, we’re able to see the person in front of us through “love-colored goggles”, if you will. We appreciate the person on a whole other level, and thus the attraction transcends all superficial barriers. So yes, kindness can certainly make you more attractive—because it makes you a better person, and that in itself is attractive as well.