relationships Archives - LUX & LUSH Tue, 26 Dec 2023 09:55:05 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 Stay Warm this Winter With These Date Ideas https://luxandlush.com/stay-warm-this-winter-with-these-date-ideas/ Fri, 29 Dec 2023 08:33:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=5724 Winter isn’t exactly the most enjoyable of seasons—between bitter cold temperatures and long, dark nights, it can be hard to find the motivation to get out of bed, let alone leave the house. For couples, this can leave your relationship feeling stale and uninspired, but you don’t have to wait until spring to heat things […]

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Winter isn’t exactly the most enjoyable of seasons—between bitter cold temperatures and long, dark nights, it can be hard to find the motivation to get out of bed, let alone leave the house. For couples, this can leave your relationship feeling stale and uninspired, but you don’t have to wait until spring to heat things up again. With a little planning, you can turn winter into a time for shared experiences and keep the spark alive all season long. Read on for some of our favorite tried-and-true winter date ideas. 

Take a Snowy Stroll

Next time it snows, bundle up and head outside for an intimate winter walk through a local park. The serene atmosphere of a natural space with a blanket of fresh powder serves as a perfect backdrop for both meaningful conversation and playful connection. To warm up afterward, retreat to a nearby café, or create your own DIY-cocoa station at home.

Skating Under the Stars

Everything is more romantic under the stars, especially ice skating. Spend an evening at a local outdoor rink gliding around hand in hand; even if you’ve never skated before, you’re sure to have a good time moving to the music and creating shared memories. Once you’ve had your fill, refuel with some post-skating treats at a nearby food truck or restaurant.

Get Cooking

When it’s cold outside, one of the best ways to bring some warmth to your relationship is through a couple’s cooking class. Together, you can learn how to use seasonal ingredients to prepare cozy soups, roasted veggies, and even indulgent winter-themed desserts. The experience of creating a delicious meal provides an opportunity for teamwork and bonding.

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Fun and Flirty Pickup Lines to Try on Men https://luxandlush.com/fun-and-flirty-pickup-lines-to-try-on-men/ Thu, 09 Nov 2023 08:21:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=5599 Whether you’re a fan of pickup lines in person or on a dating app, look no further! We’ve got you covered with a list of funny and flirty pickup lines to get you a hot date or to simply filter out guys you don’t want to be dating. Try these lines the next time you […]

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Whether you’re a fan of pickup lines in person or on a dating app, look no further! We’ve got you covered with a list of funny and flirty pickup lines to get you a hot date or to simply filter out guys you don’t want to be dating. Try these lines the next time you open Bumble to reel in a catch with your charm and wit.

“You look familiar…”

This line is an attention grabber that can almost be followed up by anything based on the response you get. If you’re going for flirty and fun try “I think I’ve seen you in my dreams before. Perhaps we can turn that dream into a reality.” If he beats you to the punch with “Maybe I’m the man of your dreams,” before you can even get any of that out, you’ll know you either found a player or a serial dater. Who knows though, he may just be the man of your dreams.

“It’s a good thing I have a library card because I’m totally checking you out.”

Flattery gets you everywhere. This line is nothing short of fantastic and if he has a sense of humor he will appreciate it. If he doesn’t appreciate a bold personality though, he may just be the one you return.

“Aside from being gorgeous, what do you do for a living?”

We like this one as a subtle and sweet way to find out if he’s employed!

“We should get a coffee sometime because I definitely like you a latte.”

This one’s corny, but it will at least get you a sizzling hot coffee date with someone you like a latte.

“Call me Fiona cuz I am head ogre heels for you.”

We included this one as a sure way to find your Shrek. If you have a similar sense of humor he might just be the ogre you end up buying a swamp with.

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Self-Care Practices for Gemini Season https://luxandlush.com/self-care-practices-for-gemini-season/ Tue, 16 May 2023 12:10:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=4403 Gemini season is just around the corner, running annually from May 21st to June 20th. As an air sign ruled by Mercury, Gemini brings a vibrant energy that encourages curiosity, socializing, and intellectual pursuits. During this season, we like to take inspiration from Gemini’s qualities of playfulness and mental stimulation and find ways to incorporate […]

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Gemini season is just around the corner, running annually from May 21st to June 20th. As an air sign ruled by Mercury, Gemini brings a vibrant energy that encourages curiosity, socializing, and intellectual pursuits. During this season, we like to take inspiration from Gemini’s qualities of playfulness and mental stimulation and find ways to incorporate them into our self-care routines. Whether you’re a Gemini yourself or are just looking to stay grounded as we move through the next few weeks, here are three Gemini-inspired self-care practices to embrace.

Stay Mentally Active

Gemini thrives on mental stimulation, so feed your curiosity by researching ideas you aren’t familiar with, engaging in thought-provoking conversations, or picking up a new hobby. Solve puzzles, read books, or enroll in an online course to keep your mind sharp and inspired.

Connect With Others

Gemini is a social butterfly, so nurture your relationships and seek meaningful connections. Plan virtual hangouts, join a book club, or engage in community activities that allow you to interact with like-minded individuals. Gemini season is an excellent time to expand your social circle as well as strengthen your existing friendships. 

Embrace Change

Gemini’s adaptable nature calls for flexibility, and your self-care routine is no exception. Be open to trying different wellness practices, such as yoga, meditation, or journaling. Gemini season is a great time to experiment with a variety of techniques to find what works best for you. Remember to embrace change and adapt your routine as needed.

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How to Tell a Friend You Need More Space https://luxandlush.com/how-to-tell-a-friend-you-need-more-space/ Thu, 10 Nov 2022 14:16:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=2797 Managing relationships might be one of the hardest things in the world to do. Social interactions are a complex beast, one that starts when we’re young and evolves as we get older. People make mistakes all the time with social cues, including that friend who has unfortunately been overstepping their boundaries in one way or […]

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Managing relationships might be one of the hardest things in the world to do. Social interactions are a complex beast, one that starts when we’re young and evolves as we get older. People make mistakes all the time with social cues, including that friend who has unfortunately been overstepping their boundaries in one way or another. If your friend is doing that to you, here’s how to tell them you need some space, without ripping their heart and crushing their soul.

Focus On Practical Issues

The key is to make sure your friend understands that it’s truly nothing personal. One way to do that is to focus on practical issues that you both often discuss. For instance, if your friend constantly talks about a guy she likes, you may want to construct your “breakup” with her around this topic.

Instead of telling her you need space, tell her that you don’t think it’s healthy for her to be talking about that guy all the time. This shows her that you may need space, but in a way that shows you also care about her at the same time. By focusing on the topics at hand, instead of “her” as an individual, you’ll be able to avoid hurting her feelings as you ease away from her slowly.

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How to Deal with Silent Treatment https://luxandlush.com/how-to-deal-with-silent-treatment/ Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:13:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=2745 As wonderful as they are, relationships require a lot of work. After all, people all come with their own quirks and flaws. Part of being in a relationship is learning how to communicate with a partner, but not everyone gets this right all the time.  In fact, this is not exclusive to romantic partners. Family, […]

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As wonderful as they are, relationships require a lot of work. After all, people all come with their own quirks and flaws. Part of being in a relationship is learning how to communicate with a partner, but not everyone gets this right all the time. 

In fact, this is not exclusive to romantic partners. Family, friend, and work relationships all tend to suffer when proper communication is not expressed—particularly if one or both resorts to giving the silent treatment. 

But what prompts such behavior?

If actions speak louder than words, then silent treatment is, ironically, deafening. Fewer things are as hurtful as a person in your life intentionally ignoring what you say, purposely neglecting texts, and making you feel like you are on the outside with no way in. It is especially frustrating if you are trying to repair whatever it is that caused damage to the relationship, but feel as if your voice has been taken away. 

Silent treatment can be a form of passive-aggressive behavior, but it can also be the result of a person not knowing how to express their feelings. Oftentimes, this stems from said person feeling ignored themselves while growing up. 

Being on the receiving end of silent treatment can cause feelings of rejection, isolation, and confusion, so it’s important to call out such behavior. Avoid doing so in a critical manner, but definitely express that something feels different or off, and that you’d like to sort it out as it has been hurting you.

Try set a ground rule for talking about things, as being open to difficult conversations is how relationships improve.

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Stop Thinking You Can Change Your Man https://luxandlush.com/stop-thinking-you-can-change-your-man/ Thu, 26 May 2022 10:23:12 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/stop-thinking-you-can-change-your-man/ It is the oldest story: She met him when he used to be a bad guy and she turned him into Mr. Right. Women always believe they can change the person, make him a better guy, making the guy they want him to be. But if there's one thing that the movie "He's just not that into you" have taught us, is that if a guy threats you badly he doesn't care about you and nothing will make him change. Exceptions exist but hardly happen. So stop thinking you can change the way the guy dresses, behaves, what he eats, his thoughts or his ambition. He won't change his life vision just because you want him to. Rather seeing men who need changes, try to find a guy who is more in line with whatever it is that you're looking for. Pick a guy who has the qualities, priorities and skills you would like him to have. Stop thinking you can change people who don't want to change, instead pick who you think could be good for you.

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It is the oldest story: She met him when he used to be a bad guy and she turned him into Mr. Right. Women always believe they can change the person, make him a better guy, making the guy they want him to be. But if there’s one thing that the movie “He’s just not that into you” have taught us, is that if a guy threats you badly he doesn’t care about you and nothing will make him change. Exceptions exist but hardly happen. So stop thinking you can change the way the guy dresses, behaves, what he eats, his thoughts or his ambition. He won’t change his life vision just because you want him to. Rather seeing men who need changes, try to find a guy who is more in line with whatever it is that you’re looking for. Pick a guy who has the qualities, priorities and skills you would like him to have. Stop thinking you can change people who don’t want to change, instead pick who you think could be good for you.

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Winter isn’t exactly the most enjoyable of seasons—between bitter cold temperatures and long, dark nights, it can be hard to find the motivation to get out of bed, let alone leave the house. For couples, this can leave your relationship feeling stale and uninspired, but you don’t have to wait until spring to heat things up again. With a little planning, you can turn winter into a time for shared experiences and keep the spark alive all season long. Read on for some of our favorite tried-and-true winter date ideas. 

Take a Snowy Stroll

Next time it snows, bundle up and head outside for an intimate winter walk through a local park. The serene atmosphere of a natural space with a blanket of fresh powder serves as a perfect backdrop for both meaningful conversation and playful connection. To warm up afterward, retreat to a nearby café, or create your own DIY-cocoa station at home.

Skating Under the Stars

Everything is more romantic under the stars, especially ice skating. Spend an evening at a local outdoor rink gliding around hand in hand; even if you’ve never skated before, you’re sure to have a good time moving to the music and creating shared memories. Once you’ve had your fill, refuel with some post-skating treats at a nearby food truck or restaurant.

Get Cooking

When it’s cold outside, one of the best ways to bring some warmth to your relationship is through a couple’s cooking class. Together, you can learn how to use seasonal ingredients to prepare cozy soups, roasted veggies, and even indulgent winter-themed desserts. The experience of creating a delicious meal provides an opportunity for teamwork and bonding.

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Fun and Flirty Pickup Lines to Try on Men https://luxandlush.com/fun-and-flirty-pickup-lines-to-try-on-men/ Thu, 09 Nov 2023 08:21:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=5599 Whether you’re a fan of pickup lines in person or on a dating app, look no further! We’ve got you covered with a list of funny and flirty pickup lines to get you a hot date or to simply filter out guys you don’t want to be dating. Try these lines the next time you […]

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Whether you’re a fan of pickup lines in person or on a dating app, look no further! We’ve got you covered with a list of funny and flirty pickup lines to get you a hot date or to simply filter out guys you don’t want to be dating. Try these lines the next time you open Bumble to reel in a catch with your charm and wit.

“You look familiar…”

This line is an attention grabber that can almost be followed up by anything based on the response you get. If you’re going for flirty and fun try “I think I’ve seen you in my dreams before. Perhaps we can turn that dream into a reality.” If he beats you to the punch with “Maybe I’m the man of your dreams,” before you can even get any of that out, you’ll know you either found a player or a serial dater. Who knows though, he may just be the man of your dreams.

“It’s a good thing I have a library card because I’m totally checking you out.”

Flattery gets you everywhere. This line is nothing short of fantastic and if he has a sense of humor he will appreciate it. If he doesn’t appreciate a bold personality though, he may just be the one you return.

“Aside from being gorgeous, what do you do for a living?”

We like this one as a subtle and sweet way to find out if he’s employed!

“We should get a coffee sometime because I definitely like you a latte.”

This one’s corny, but it will at least get you a sizzling hot coffee date with someone you like a latte.

“Call me Fiona cuz I am head ogre heels for you.”

We included this one as a sure way to find your Shrek. If you have a similar sense of humor he might just be the ogre you end up buying a swamp with.

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Self-Care Practices for Gemini Season https://luxandlush.com/self-care-practices-for-gemini-season/ Tue, 16 May 2023 12:10:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=4403 Gemini season is just around the corner, running annually from May 21st to June 20th. As an air sign ruled by Mercury, Gemini brings a vibrant energy that encourages curiosity, socializing, and intellectual pursuits. During this season, we like to take inspiration from Gemini’s qualities of playfulness and mental stimulation and find ways to incorporate […]

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Gemini season is just around the corner, running annually from May 21st to June 20th. As an air sign ruled by Mercury, Gemini brings a vibrant energy that encourages curiosity, socializing, and intellectual pursuits. During this season, we like to take inspiration from Gemini’s qualities of playfulness and mental stimulation and find ways to incorporate them into our self-care routines. Whether you’re a Gemini yourself or are just looking to stay grounded as we move through the next few weeks, here are three Gemini-inspired self-care practices to embrace.

Stay Mentally Active

Gemini thrives on mental stimulation, so feed your curiosity by researching ideas you aren’t familiar with, engaging in thought-provoking conversations, or picking up a new hobby. Solve puzzles, read books, or enroll in an online course to keep your mind sharp and inspired.

Connect With Others

Gemini is a social butterfly, so nurture your relationships and seek meaningful connections. Plan virtual hangouts, join a book club, or engage in community activities that allow you to interact with like-minded individuals. Gemini season is an excellent time to expand your social circle as well as strengthen your existing friendships. 

Embrace Change

Gemini’s adaptable nature calls for flexibility, and your self-care routine is no exception. Be open to trying different wellness practices, such as yoga, meditation, or journaling. Gemini season is a great time to experiment with a variety of techniques to find what works best for you. Remember to embrace change and adapt your routine as needed.

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How to Tell a Friend You Need More Space https://luxandlush.com/how-to-tell-a-friend-you-need-more-space/ Thu, 10 Nov 2022 14:16:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=2797 Managing relationships might be one of the hardest things in the world to do. Social interactions are a complex beast, one that starts when we’re young and evolves as we get older. People make mistakes all the time with social cues, including that friend who has unfortunately been overstepping their boundaries in one way or […]

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Managing relationships might be one of the hardest things in the world to do. Social interactions are a complex beast, one that starts when we’re young and evolves as we get older. People make mistakes all the time with social cues, including that friend who has unfortunately been overstepping their boundaries in one way or another. If your friend is doing that to you, here’s how to tell them you need some space, without ripping their heart and crushing their soul.

Focus On Practical Issues

The key is to make sure your friend understands that it’s truly nothing personal. One way to do that is to focus on practical issues that you both often discuss. For instance, if your friend constantly talks about a guy she likes, you may want to construct your “breakup” with her around this topic.

Instead of telling her you need space, tell her that you don’t think it’s healthy for her to be talking about that guy all the time. This shows her that you may need space, but in a way that shows you also care about her at the same time. By focusing on the topics at hand, instead of “her” as an individual, you’ll be able to avoid hurting her feelings as you ease away from her slowly.

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How to Deal with Silent Treatment https://luxandlush.com/how-to-deal-with-silent-treatment/ Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:13:00 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/?p=2745 As wonderful as they are, relationships require a lot of work. After all, people all come with their own quirks and flaws. Part of being in a relationship is learning how to communicate with a partner, but not everyone gets this right all the time.  In fact, this is not exclusive to romantic partners. Family, […]

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As wonderful as they are, relationships require a lot of work. After all, people all come with their own quirks and flaws. Part of being in a relationship is learning how to communicate with a partner, but not everyone gets this right all the time. 

In fact, this is not exclusive to romantic partners. Family, friend, and work relationships all tend to suffer when proper communication is not expressed—particularly if one or both resorts to giving the silent treatment. 

But what prompts such behavior?

If actions speak louder than words, then silent treatment is, ironically, deafening. Fewer things are as hurtful as a person in your life intentionally ignoring what you say, purposely neglecting texts, and making you feel like you are on the outside with no way in. It is especially frustrating if you are trying to repair whatever it is that caused damage to the relationship, but feel as if your voice has been taken away. 

Silent treatment can be a form of passive-aggressive behavior, but it can also be the result of a person not knowing how to express their feelings. Oftentimes, this stems from said person feeling ignored themselves while growing up. 

Being on the receiving end of silent treatment can cause feelings of rejection, isolation, and confusion, so it’s important to call out such behavior. Avoid doing so in a critical manner, but definitely express that something feels different or off, and that you’d like to sort it out as it has been hurting you.

Try set a ground rule for talking about things, as being open to difficult conversations is how relationships improve.

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Stop Thinking You Can Change Your Man https://luxandlush.com/stop-thinking-you-can-change-your-man/ Thu, 26 May 2022 10:23:12 +0000 https://luxandlush.com/stop-thinking-you-can-change-your-man/ It is the oldest story: She met him when he used to be a bad guy and she turned him into Mr. Right. Women always believe they can change the person, make him a better guy, making the guy they want him to be. But if there's one thing that the movie "He's just not that into you" have taught us, is that if a guy threats you badly he doesn't care about you and nothing will make him change. Exceptions exist but hardly happen. So stop thinking you can change the way the guy dresses, behaves, what he eats, his thoughts or his ambition. He won't change his life vision just because you want him to. Rather seeing men who need changes, try to find a guy who is more in line with whatever it is that you're looking for. Pick a guy who has the qualities, priorities and skills you would like him to have. Stop thinking you can change people who don't want to change, instead pick who you think could be good for you.

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It is the oldest story: She met him when he used to be a bad guy and she turned him into Mr. Right. Women always believe they can change the person, make him a better guy, making the guy they want him to be. But if there’s one thing that the movie “He’s just not that into you” have taught us, is that if a guy threats you badly he doesn’t care about you and nothing will make him change. Exceptions exist but hardly happen. So stop thinking you can change the way the guy dresses, behaves, what he eats, his thoughts or his ambition. He won’t change his life vision just because you want him to. Rather seeing men who need changes, try to find a guy who is more in line with whatever it is that you’re looking for. Pick a guy who has the qualities, priorities and skills you would like him to have. Stop thinking you can change people who don’t want to change, instead pick who you think could be good for you.

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