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]]>If sitting in one place sounds boring, then why not enjoy a date on the move? Playing mini golf and going ice skating are two easy ways to keep things interesting while still leaving an opportunity to get the conversation flowing.
One way to pass the time while having fun is by taking a creative class together. Pottery, ceramics, and painting are all great options, providing the pair of you with an opportunity to express yourselves and give each other some insight into your way of thinking.
Not only is tasting wine and some delicious cheese enjoyable, but many wine tastings involve a tour of the winery or vineyard, making for a romantic day out. This means that you can quench your thirst just as you would on a regular night out but with the additional fun of embarking on a walking tour.
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]]>We know; it’s super hard when everyone around you seems to be getting married, buying homes, and having kids. It can make you feel left behind and as though you aren’t doing as well as others. But trust us, that’s not the case. The only person you have to compare yourself to is you. Feeling pressured by a particular timeline means you might make big decisions from a place of insecurity.
Let’s admit it, when we’re young, we’re charmed by good looks, great bodies, and flashy cars. As we mature, though, we tend to go for other qualities, like emotional intelligence; communication skills; honesty; and self-awareness. It can also take a bit of time for both of you to reach a place where you are comfortable enough to be vulnerable.
You may roll your eyes at this, but here’s the truth—you’ve got to love yourself first. You have to know who you are and what you bring to the table in order to know who is worthy of sitting there.
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]]>We should clarify that we’re mainly referring to the early stages of a relationship. As couples begin to get closer with one another, they call each other more—and this helps us segue into our next point, which is that it all comes down to trust.
Anxiety levels are higher than they’ve ever been. We can technically “connect” to people better than ever through technology, but people are having trouble connecting emotionally. Actually talking to someone in real-time, whether it’s on a date or on the phone, makes you much more vulnerable than if you were texting them. When you text, you can screen your messages through a wide veneer of time, convenience, and interest. But on the phone, you need to have something to say right off the bat.
The problem is, if you don’t risk putting yourself out there in real-time, you won’t ever reap the benefits that may come from it as well. You won’t cultivate the trust that only comes from allowing yourself to potentially look stupid in a live conversation.
This is why texting has taken over talking on the phone. But maybe, just maybe, if people push themselves to do the latter more often—while they may strike out more—they may actually hit a few more home runs.
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]]>Are you nervous before a first date? We want to help you and give you some tips that according to researchers can really help you doing the best impression.
First of all, communicate in a physically active way. Make simple gesture to seem more engaging and energetic.
Prepare for the night with power postures. According to Amy Cuddy, a Social Psychologist that recently gave a TED talk, body language can improve your self-confidence.
Don’t accept random dates unless you’re interested in the person.Pick someone that sparks your interest, someone you would like to speak with, someone you would have questions to ask to.
Lean your head while the other person is talking if you find what he or she is saying interesting.
Most importantly, establish an eye-contact with the person. It will create chemistry and intimacy and will give him or her the feeling that you are really into the conversation.
These are some tips you could use, but at the end of the day the most important thing is: do you feel the butterflies in your stomach? If yes, the rest will figure itself out. If not, you’ll find the right person on another date. Both ways, enjoy your life and your dates. You’re only single until you fall in love, enjoy that time also!
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]]>The post First Date Ideas to Create a Great First Impression appeared first on LUX & LUSH.
]]>If sitting in one place sounds boring, then why not enjoy a date on the move? Playing mini golf and going ice skating are two easy ways to keep things interesting while still leaving an opportunity to get the conversation flowing.
One way to pass the time while having fun is by taking a creative class together. Pottery, ceramics, and painting are all great options, providing the pair of you with an opportunity to express yourselves and give each other some insight into your way of thinking.
Not only is tasting wine and some delicious cheese enjoyable, but many wine tastings involve a tour of the winery or vineyard, making for a romantic day out. This means that you can quench your thirst just as you would on a regular night out but with the additional fun of embarking on a walking tour.
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]]>The post Dating Advice You Need at Any Age appeared first on LUX & LUSH.
]]>We know; it’s super hard when everyone around you seems to be getting married, buying homes, and having kids. It can make you feel left behind and as though you aren’t doing as well as others. But trust us, that’s not the case. The only person you have to compare yourself to is you. Feeling pressured by a particular timeline means you might make big decisions from a place of insecurity.
Let’s admit it, when we’re young, we’re charmed by good looks, great bodies, and flashy cars. As we mature, though, we tend to go for other qualities, like emotional intelligence; communication skills; honesty; and self-awareness. It can also take a bit of time for both of you to reach a place where you are comfortable enough to be vulnerable.
You may roll your eyes at this, but here’s the truth—you’ve got to love yourself first. You have to know who you are and what you bring to the table in order to know who is worthy of sitting there.
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]]>The post Why Has Texting Taken Over Talking in Dating? appeared first on LUX & LUSH.
]]>We should clarify that we’re mainly referring to the early stages of a relationship. As couples begin to get closer with one another, they call each other more—and this helps us segue into our next point, which is that it all comes down to trust.
Anxiety levels are higher than they’ve ever been. We can technically “connect” to people better than ever through technology, but people are having trouble connecting emotionally. Actually talking to someone in real-time, whether it’s on a date or on the phone, makes you much more vulnerable than if you were texting them. When you text, you can screen your messages through a wide veneer of time, convenience, and interest. But on the phone, you need to have something to say right off the bat.
The problem is, if you don’t risk putting yourself out there in real-time, you won’t ever reap the benefits that may come from it as well. You won’t cultivate the trust that only comes from allowing yourself to potentially look stupid in a live conversation.
This is why texting has taken over talking on the phone. But maybe, just maybe, if people push themselves to do the latter more often—while they may strike out more—they may actually hit a few more home runs.
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]]>The post First Date Tricks To Make You Feel More Comfortable appeared first on LUX & LUSH.
]]>Are you nervous before a first date? We want to help you and give you some tips that according to researchers can really help you doing the best impression.
First of all, communicate in a physically active way. Make simple gesture to seem more engaging and energetic.
Prepare for the night with power postures. According to Amy Cuddy, a Social Psychologist that recently gave a TED talk, body language can improve your self-confidence.
Don’t accept random dates unless you’re interested in the person.Pick someone that sparks your interest, someone you would like to speak with, someone you would have questions to ask to.
Lean your head while the other person is talking if you find what he or she is saying interesting.
Most importantly, establish an eye-contact with the person. It will create chemistry and intimacy and will give him or her the feeling that you are really into the conversation.
These are some tips you could use, but at the end of the day the most important thing is: do you feel the butterflies in your stomach? If yes, the rest will figure itself out. If not, you’ll find the right person on another date. Both ways, enjoy your life and your dates. You’re only single until you fall in love, enjoy that time also!
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